Seven from me too
Posted: February 22, 2008 at 3:14 pm by pannOK, thanks Artemesia, you’ve tagged me, thus allowing me to put off cleaning the catboxes just a little longer today.
The Rules:
# Link to the person who tagged you
# Post the rules on your blog.
# Share seven random and/or weird facts about yourself on your blog.
# Tag seven random people at the end of your post, and include links to their blogs. (um, okay, but please know, oh randomly tagged people, that I truly don’t expect you to comply unless you are into it…)
# Leave a comment on their blogs so that they know they have been tagged. (being a total rule breaker, I am not even going to bother doing this… slacker!!!)
ONWARD!
1. I pretty much only wear Doc Martens (shoes). I have two pairs that I mainly alternate, and love them dearly. I have another pair, that I can’t seem to find, so I don’t wear them as much. Before these three pairs dominated my footwear scene, I had just one pair of black Doc Martens, that I had bought in England in 1994 and wore extensively for about ten years before I had to buy replacements. Oh and in the summer, bare feet round the house, and crocs elsewhere. Oh, and for pants I wear Levi Jeans.
2. I always wanted to have two daughters, and never hoped — not once– for a son. I have two daughters and that suits me perfectly. Sometimes I crave little baby feet, but then that feeling ebbs away. I think I may really be done!
3. Almost all of my furniture is hand-me-downs. Exceptions: our queen sized bed, and Carla’s loft bed from IKEA.
4. I stopped eating commercially processed pork because of what I read in The Omnivore’s Dilemma. I had already pretty much stopped eating conventionally processed beef (not being that fond of it anyway.) But pork? Oh GOD, I fucking love pork. Bacon! Ham! Pork Chops! Salami! Prosciutto! But what I read in that book saddened and disgusted me so deeply, that I won’t buy pork products unless I KNOW that they come from small farms that treat their pigs in a humane way, and slaughter them as humanely as possible. Being killed for meat in and of itself is not upsetting to me. But horrid and painful living conditions for animals who are headed to eventual slaughter is unacceptable to me.
5. I like to paint my toenails blue in the summer. I had blue toenails to stare at when I gave birth to my first child. My husband had painted them for me, because I couldn’t reach my toes so well at that point.
6. I worry every day that I might lose my new job (as after school director) next year. I want to keep it so badly. It really hurts my feelings that when I was hired, I was told that a search for a new A/S director would be conducted for next year anyway. So I worry and try to do a really good job, and blabbermouth at everyone at school how much I love the job, the kids, the school, the program and I wear my heart on my sleeve about how dearly I want to keep this job.
7. I have a lot of gray hair. It started turning gray at the ripe old age of 23. When I first noticed it, I cut my hair short, as I didn’t like sitting there in grad school staring at my long gray strands and wondering if grad school was the cause of the gray, or if it was perhaps my full time job as a head teacher of a group of 18 - 24 month old kids. Or perhaps the insanity of working full time and being in grad school full time simultaneously. These thoughts were more unwelcome than the hair itself. Today, though, I am at peace with my hair. I have never once dyed it in my entire life and I often give it any trims that I think it needs with my own pair of scissors.
Randomly tagged souls… hmmmm…. how does one randomly tag someone? Am I supposed to put the names of blogs into a hat and see who comes up? I’ll just list seven bloggers whose blogs I visit somewhat regularly, in no particular order. Swistle, Stacie, Cammy, Heather, MamaGeek, TBH, Neil Gaiman. (Ok, I seriously doubt that Neil Gaiman will take on this meme, but you never know. Neil, if you read this, holy cow, man you just made my day. I think you are just brilliant.)
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February 22nd, 2008 at 11:24 pm
About number 6:
I really hope you get hired for next year!
But it seems like normal employment practice to hire someone for a temp gig and also do a search beyond the school’s community for a permanent position. I very much doubt it has anything to do with you. It’s the school’s hiring practice.
But, feelings are feelings, and mine are hurt too by things that have nothing to do with me.
Right now, for example. My parents just moved here from a very warm climate. It’s February. They’re depressed and sick and questioning their decision to move here. This hurts my feelings. I want them to love my city and my neighborhood, and I want them to be so happy to live near me and my family that they can overlook a little wind chill factor.
So. Your feelings are hurt by a normal employment policy. My feelings are hurt because my parents are not used to this cold weather.
Maybe we are a bit similar after all.
February 24th, 2008 at 8:47 am
You are braver than me. I have dyed my hair since I was 27. DH never asked me if I did, and it actually never came up until about two years ago….it’s really pathetic, I’ll go to work with frayed cuffs on my sweater, wearing a jacket that’s two sizes too big for me and tennies that are out of style AND falling apart, but the thought of someone knowing I have gray hair, well, I mean…what would people THINK???
LOL, I wish I was more like you!
February 24th, 2008 at 8:32 pm
Ah, Carol, I’m not brave, just blond! The grey actually is hard to notice (I think) and so people just think I look blond (I think)!
TBH: There is nothing NORMAL about this school’s employment policies. It is weird as it gets. For example, this same exact part time position that I have was filled last year without the assistance of the personnel committee. It was filled by having three staff members interview people (there were 3 of us in all!) and then just choose from there. The policy is usually that p/t positions can be filled by the staff. So I’m thinking WTF is going on that all of a sudden, they are turning on the search lights now that I finally got my hands on this job?!
But yes, you and I are not all that different in this one respect: we both have feelings that can get hurt even when there isn’t always a simple logical reason for it.
Hugs to you for your bruised feelings…